Nothing noticeable has happened on this fast. I used to see God blow things up. Now, I am no sure. But, there is time yet.
This thing about the three young ladies who all reached out to me is really bugging me.
I want to learn all that I can. I want God to change whatever needs changing. It’s odd how they all approached me.
My takeaway so far:
- Guard yourself.
- Do not get in a compromising situation.
- Be careful of what you say – honestly or full disclosure is probably not best at the beginning.
- Slow is better. God is not in a hurry. Build the relationship.
- Not everyone, even charismatics, understand my dialogue with the LORD. And, they could be young.
- Safe boundaries.
- Nothing in the dark.
Boundaries:
- No opposite sex one on one in any compromising or potentially dangerous situations. Public venues are ok. Private are not.
- No one on one with married women or single women once I am married.
- No lengthy text or email conversations with any woman I am not romantically involved with.
- Minister (when possible) to a woman with another woman present.
- Keep private life private. Dont bring or expound on personal life in ministry situations outside of the testimony.
- Single women may not understand you. Talk to them like your daughter.